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In a Me Too world, Ladies want to date an older man it worth exploring the power dynamics that exist when an older man pursues a much younger woman? Memoirist Joyce Maynard thinks so. Salinger when he was 52 and she was an year-old aspiring writer.

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He read the signals I wanted him to and respected my boundaries. He taught me a lot about myself, even though we never really had heavy conversations. And he eventually became like a mental push for me to accept myself for who I am and to come out to my family. I was 29, and he was He courted five other women while we were together.

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I learned with him never to trust completely.

So we were 15 years apart. He was divorced with two children who were 12 and 8 at the time. I was in my first semester of college and fo a bartender at an American Legion, which is a pretty divey bar where I live.

The relationship lasted off and on for five years. I would say there was definitely a power imbalance. He would tell me about his past sexual relationships wanf try to shame me into doing things he wanted. He was manipulative and would lie about the craziest things to get me to do what he wanted.

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When I Ladies want to date an older man a teenager, I was dating 20, 21, After my divorce I was married to a man my age — go figureI began dating older mman again, which is a pattern I have stuck to ever since. The relationship with the biggest age gap was 25 years. We met at work. We ended up being together for about a year and a half after reconnecting as I was separating and divorcing.

There was no power imbalance. We were pretty evenly matched.

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He was also not the toughest man in the world on the inside, although he could play one on the outside pretty well. He was careful with my feelings. I honestly just feel that everyone matures at different rates and everyone is shaped by life experience. I have lived a lot of life in my 33 years.

I have really grown into a pretty independent, mature woman who is Ladies want to date an older man beyond her age. So, no, I never feel not equal to the man I am dating, powerwise. Responses have been edited for style and clarity.

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